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Offline phillyone

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Re: Conversations with my son
« Reply #30 on: February 22, 2010, 07:55:44 PM »
I'm so glad that you are having positive communications with your kids and they know you're trying hard to get them back! Sean had no idea and thought the opposite.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Offline JuliRosi

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Re: Conversations with my son
« Reply #31 on: March 04, 2010, 02:48:57 AM »
Totally agreed!


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Tim,
 
 
I have all LBPs in my prayers, everyday, with hopes of one day reverting this awful situation. But the reality is, I don't know how you have the strength to get out of bed every morning.

I read this and it reminded me the time I went through divorce (almost 11 years ago), my youngest was 4 months old and the oldest was 4 years old... we had just moved from Europe to USA, with my closest and most trusted friends/family in Brazil...
 
For those who can actually keep their sanity intact (in the long run) I can tell you right now that KIDS ARE THE REASON. You just do it. You get up and go. When you can't get up and go, you drag yourself to the next step in some sort of unnoticeable survival mode... you build strength without even noticing you are actually "working out"... from baby step to baby step... until one day you look back and realize what a huge mountain you moved.
 
We are moving mountains right here, and right now.
 
Tim, work that heart muscle... never ever let it go... you will need that much strength and more to hold your babies close when you finally get them to come home to you :)


Offline Celita

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Re: Conversations with my son
« Reply #32 on: March 08, 2010, 10:29:44 PM »
I always wanted to have a child but my husband (my daughters' dad , in Brazil) didn't want because he had already a couple  of kids and prohibit me to get pregnant. Even with all precautions I got pregnant and I didn't know; I was 4.5 month , studying to be a dentist , when my husband took me to the doctor because I had a terrible headache , I was founded pregnant and he abandoned. Only 2.7 years later ,with remorse,  he took  us back, but he never gave love to my daughter. He always rejected her, however, when he got very ill, as I always asked her to love her dad no matter what , because she would never regret of giving him love .  Was beautiful when he recognize all the years he lost without that sweet, loving caring child , loving him and staying with him when he was dying, he asked her to forgive him.  My daughter, (only one), today with 33 years old, always thanks me for teaching her to love even those he didn't love her. It's a Christian principle.
Why I am saying all that? Because when I started to feel David's  pain, and later the other Dads here in the same situation he was, I got so involved emotionally because I see you guys suffering for being apart from your child (or children). I see you guys suffering and fighting  for your child (or children) and have the right to raise them and draw them close to you. I suffered for David and each one of you that want so bad to have your child back and give them a chance to receive more love (because it needed two to make a child, and it need two to love her and support her , as God planned). I wish I had the power to bring all these children back but I know One who can do  and there is nothing impossible for Him. God bless you all! Celita