They will find you!

[Diane]

I just went to the search line on Google and typed in my grandson's name.   Both the last name given him on his birth certificate and his mothers last name that they have assigned to him in Mexico.   Page's of results popped up.  On this forum,  YouTube, Facebook,  and many others.   The blog his aunt started chronicling the whole journey, videos with his dad here and in Mexico,  etc.   These abductors cannot run and they cannot hide anymore.   Their children have access to the truth and they will make that post,  that phone call and that journey to their left behind parent.   The day of reckoning is inevitable.   

So make your blogs, post your videos, make public your court struggles,  and your stories.  They will know how much you loved them, and struggled to be with them and they will come home.

[cm]

I just went to the search line on Google and typed in my grandson's name.   Both the last name given him on his birth certificate and his mothers last name that they have assigned to him in Mexico.   Page's of results popped up.  On this forum,  YouTube, Facebook,  and many others.   The blog his aunt started chronicling the whole journey, videos with his dad here and in Mexico,  etc.   These abductors cannot run and they cannot hide anymore.   Their children have access to the truth and they will make that post,  that phone call and that journey to their left behind parent.   The day of reckoning is inevitable.   

So make your blogs, post your videos, make public your court struggles,  and your stories.  They will know how much you loved them, and struggled to be with them and they will come home.

:yeahthat

Well said Diane!

[SageDad]

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So make your blogs, post your videos, make public your court struggles,  and your stories.  They will know how much you loved them, and struggled to be with them and they will come home.

Who will come home?  An unknown adult child returning to an unknown left behind parent?  Two total strangers, damaged by societies inability and unwillingness to help them, trying to find a way to fill the emptiness that has already become a defining factor of their lives?  A silver lining I suppose, but small consolation to a child who has suffered the damage of having half of their identity and support system stripped from them, or to a parent who has had their heart ripped out.  By then the damage is done.  Once the child is no longer a child the child abduction, and the harms associated with it, are a fait accompli.  Humpty dumpty has fallen.  Lost time can never be found.

[momoftwo]

So I kind of stink at removing and quoting a portion of a previous post...I'm responding to you, my brother Carlos.  I see what you're saying...a fair amount of damage is done and the time lost is never returned.  Injuries suffered in childhood take work to overcome, but, relate it to the case of our own childhood experience.  I know this is kind of personal, but considering all our own father did (or didn't do) during our formative years, it all could have been improved SO much had he simply "grown up" later on, given a sincere apology, and made a real attempt at being a father.  Yes, should all avenues fail to produce results towards bringing Sage home while he still resembles a child, the two of you will have to "get to know eachother" once again when he is older, but it will happen.  Children, even after they grow up, have an inherent desire to be loved by a mother and a father.  When a loving parent is available, especially when there is proof that they were always there waiting, the child will respond favorably, IMO.  In some ways, despite all the tragedy that his mother has caused, Sage is luckier than many children, for he has a father who loves him to the ends of the earth, who will stop at nothing to protect him and to be with him again.

Same goes to all other LBP's who struggle with these feelings...

[Diane]

Who will come home?  An unknown adult child returning to an unknown left behind parent?  Two total strangers, damaged by societies inability and unwillingness to help them, trying to find a way to fill the emptiness that has already become a defining factor of their lives?  A silver lining I suppose, but small consolation to a child who has suffered the damage of having half of their identity and support system stripped from them, or to a parent who has had their heart ripped out.  By then the damage is done.  Once the child is no longer a child the child abduction, and the harms associated with it, are a fait accompli.  Humpty dumpty has fallen.  Lost time can never be found.

I know and I thought about this as I was writing this post.  Childhood lasts for about 18 years.  Reconnecting as an adult can last much longer.  (Of course this is not the chosen path.  Early returns are everyone's hope and most fervent desire.  But many LBPs have already reached that plateau.)

The chronicle is so important because they need to know, even at that advanced age how much they were loved and missed.   Also,  I must acknowledge the desire for an understanding of what was done to them by the abducting parent and the many lies they were probably subjected to, as just what they were, and for the abductor to be confronted for the damage they have done.

[StrngConviction]

part of the problem is posts, missing persons reports, yada yada, he has found .Which to him just substantiates what his Mother is telling him (he thinks), that I am the cause of their problems and lie about her. And thinks I am the threat not the solution. Very saddening. I do believe in time he will acknowledge the truth but it is very trying as of now.

[Diane]

part of the problem is posts, missing persons reports, yada yada, he has found .Which to him just substantiates what his Mother is telling him (he thinks), that I am the cause of their problems and lie about her. And thinks I am the threat not the solution. Very saddening. I do believe in time he will acknowledge the truth but it is very trying as of now.

Lie's told to these children has everything to do with keeping them away from the other parent.   Even phone calls are probably closely monitored.   If you look at Sagedad in visits with his son, (in the video's)  his wife barely gave them room to move.   She was right behind them at every step.  (Remember Sean on the visits of David in Brazil.)   You see that with all abducting parents.   They are terrified of the child actually getting to know the other parent as they are fully aware that the truth will reveal the evil and deceit necessary to their nefarious acts.  When you think about it, they know that the day is coming when they must face the recrimination if not legal then for sure from the child estranged from a loving parent.  To all you abductors out there,   You can run and hide but count on it,  Karma is in your future..