but seriously , with them envelopes postmarked , just keep them and put the money in an escrow for her , if they ask for it , you got it to give and no excuses needed. its not your place to send it to people that dont matter and that Judge dont give a shit about your sending him the payments.He probably never see them anyway, his secretary will open it , see that its a child support check and send it back . If he does get it he will cuss his secretary out for sending it in his office and not even wonder why your sent them to him.Legal eagles are very much a " pass the buck" kind of animal . why you need attorneys to file it with court how its to be paid , if you pay it that way your good , if its returned a number of times , you need to inform the court formally that you have had them returned and it now sits in an account.