My wife and her family have been teaching my son that his grandfather is his father and have taught him that his full name is Sage Antonio Rayon Garcia Gonzales, removing my last name and taking the grandfather's last name as the paternal surname and even adding the grandfather's maternal surname at the end.
My wife, ever willing to shamelessly make things up, says that she never "taught" him that. He just heard other people in the house calling him dad and started doing it too. She'd say something similar if I asked about the last names, but when dealing with pathological liars you quickly learn to appreciate that asking such questions is pointless. There's not a chance in hell they'll tell the truth (and if by some miracle they did you'd have very little basis for believing it), and having your intelligence repeatedly insulted by someone who gets angry when you refuse to believe their nonsense gets old pretty fast.
There have been other such things being taught to my son that I've come to find out about and indications of even more happening in the background whose nature has yet to be determined.
I was considering writing a letter to someone about the parental alienation as, to me, it's a critical signal that my son is being abused -- maybe the US State Dept, or the Mexican Secretary of Foreign Relations. I could write to my Congressman and Senators and tell them that, international child abduction is, by itself, an extreme form of parental alienation which is, itself, a serious form of child abuse, and that, even more importantly, the abuse continues.
But then I remembered reading a Press Release from the National Organization of Women that says:
"Formerly labeled Parental Alienation Syndrome, (PAS), Parental Alienation (PA) is now the favorite excuse by so-called father’s rights groups to further abuse protective mothers. NOW denounced this syndrome...
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“Parental alienation” is junk science. In order to excuse their outbursts, many of which have been directed at children, controlling husbands/fathers cling to a phenomenon which blames mothers, in foul attempts to identify and excuse their behavior.
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“PA as a scientific theory has been excoriated by legitimate researchers across the nation.”
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It has been well documented that the claim of “parental alienation' is a legal tactic used almost exclusively against women after they muster up enough courage to leave the men that batter them and abuse their children.
And I remembered that if I say my wife is abusing our son with parental alienation it really means that I batter women and children and am foully attempting to excuse my behavior.
So if I do nothing I have to watch my son being abused and if I do anything about it I'm being abusive.
Makes perfect sense.
It almost seems like now days a wife can
cut off a man's penis or even kill him by
dousing it in an alcohol based solvent and lighting it on fire because he hugged another women and still
walk away free as the "victim."
