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Offline ProudDaddy

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #135 on: October 07, 2011, 04:02:14 PM »
It almost feels like I'm asking too much to just have my daughter in my life, to not be picked out everywhere I go by random people knowing about the story, and to just move on with my life having some closure, giving all my children a good life without drama...

Is this too much to ask? It sure feels like it some days...

Does anyone else feel the way I do?  I know I am not alone, some days are better than others for sure...

Is there any type of annual gathering of LBP's anywhere in the US? It would be nice to be surrounded by others that know exactly how I feel... even is it's just for a day.

I am not a LBP but I can feel your agonizing pain, even being thousands of miles away. I have my little, 30 months old Erika with me and I do know how much we need each other. Your precious Emily is the only painkiller you need. One day she will be with you and hopefully not too distant in the future. She is healthy and growing, and this is a consolation albeit small.

Don't give up man!

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #136 on: October 07, 2011, 11:46:26 PM »
Roy,
 Its not too much to ask to have your daughter in your life. You are not alone. I know the anger the deep sadness and the sleepless nights. I recall on May 24th in Wash DC where every LBP talked about dreams at night of their children. I believe all the LBPs that struggled as long as you would do anything for best of their children. Unfortunately TPs are too selfish or mentally ill to see what is best for the child. I only pray that Emily will grow and break the cycle of abuse and her abductor will make amends for the excessive cruelty.
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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #137 on: October 08, 2011, 08:19:30 PM »
Is there any type of annual gathering of LBP's anywhere in the US? It would be nice to be surrounded by others that know exactly how I feel... even is it's just for a day.

We've actually tossed this idea around a couple of times but quesioned the feasibility of it, understanding that so much of a LBP's funds are reserved for legal and other expenses assocciated with their efforts to be reunited with their children.

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #138 on: October 09, 2011, 02:25:06 PM »
It almost feels like I'm asking too much to just have my daughter in my life, to not be picked out everywhere I go by random people knowing about the story, and to just move on with my life having some closure, giving all my children a good life without drama...

Is this too much to ask? It sure feels like it some days...

The US State Dept. seems to think that us asking for the ability to parent our internationally abducted children is an unreasonable request.  There are so many "real" issues for them to work on after all.  But a government that cannot ensure the basic and natural rights of the family to exist is fundamentally flawed in a way that will have profound repercussions throughout the rest of society.

In my case I'm not asking State, or much anyone else, for anything.  When it comes to US officials, to whom me and my family have paid taxes for generations, I am demanding that they make good on their promises to protect children and uphold their commitments under the Hague Convention as a government of, by and for the people.

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Does anyone else feel the way I do?  I know I am not alone, some days are better than others for sure...

We all feel that way.

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Is there any type of annual gathering of LBP's anywhere in the US? It would be nice to be surrounded by others that know exactly how I feel... even is it's just for a day.

There have been some events like that, but none in the US for a long time.

I think organizing a conference of sorts would be a good idea.

Not just for parents but for other professionals dealing with these issues, lawyers, judges, politicians, law enforcement, social workers, psychologists, journalists, etc. to attend and give presentations.

International Child Abduction is a subject that involves many others, like politics, law, social sciences, etc.

Could have speakers on various topics like parental alienation, impact on children, parents, extended families, etc.

Be a good way for LBP's to meet each other, gain information and draw attention to the issue.
“What you seek is seeking you.”
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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #139 on: October 09, 2011, 10:17:49 PM »
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There have been some events like that, but none in the US for a long time.

I think organizing a conference of sorts would be a good idea.

Not just for parents but for other professionals dealing with these issues, lawyers, judges, politicians, law enforcement, social workers, psychologists, journalists, etc. to attend and give presentations.

International Child Abduction is a subject that involves many others, like politics, law, social sciences, etc.

Could have speakers on various topics like parental alienation, impact on children, parents, extended families, etc.

Be a good way for LBP's to meet each other, gain information and draw attention to the issue.

You could have it coincide with the annual congressional hearing on IPCA...than you could kill two birds with one stone without asking people to travel twice in a year.
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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #140 on: October 10, 2011, 09:22:05 PM »
Organizing a large gathering would be amazing... I wold love to meet everyone face to face, and figure out ways we can increase the awareness of International Kidnapping and how we can fight it.

Who's game?

Good idea about the time of year too...  Annual Congressional Hearing on IPCA would be a good target and location.

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A good news article
« Reply #141 on: October 12, 2011, 03:22:28 AM »
Oh goodie... all I have to do is google my name in different languages and I find more up to date stories about my case... this particular story happens to be very enlightening since it comes from Costa Rica.

http://lbpblueprints.blogspot.com/2011/10/great-article.html

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #142 on: October 31, 2011, 12:25:47 PM »
Happy Halloween to everyone... I only wish I knew what my daughter was going to be dressed as this year, but her mother NEVER sends me any pictures... Funny how she claims to want the "best" for Emily and continues to keep me completely out of her life even with several countries between us.

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #143 on: October 31, 2011, 01:10:37 PM »
I hope Emily gets to enjoy Holloween.  this will be the first year my children will miss trick or treat. It is sad for me to say that I do not want them in the streets where they are living now ( Santo Domingo Este).

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001049078408#!/pages/Bring-Isabel-Gabriel-Home/108839019204057

http://www.acento.com.do/index.php/news/8622/56/En-Santo-Domingo-Este-la-basura-es-duena-y-senora-de-los-espacios-publicos.html

I pray for the health and safety of all children today
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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #144 on: December 07, 2011, 06:05:52 PM »
Hello all... First I want to say Happy Holidays.

It's been a while since I've spoken out about me and my case. So here is a recent video of me just expressing life at this point. Thanks for everyone and your support!

http://lbpblueprints.blogspot.com/2011/12/it-really-comes-down-to-gratitude.html

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #145 on: December 07, 2011, 06:08:48 PM »
hmmm? Link didn't work? Try this one...

http://lbpblueprints.blogspot.com/

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #146 on: December 07, 2011, 09:05:04 PM »
You forgot the colon in the URL the first time.

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #147 on: December 08, 2011, 01:21:42 AM »
Good to hear from you, Roy!  Wish it was positive news instead of more waiting.   :mad:  A taking parent is so selfish.  A child needs BOTH parents where possible. 
"Every parent who has a child and they tuck him in at night, or her in at night, and they wish the best and only the best and they will always protect the child and do whatever they can, but most of the time they don't have to prove it. I'm in the proving grounds, to myself and to my child.  I have to get him home and I will do whatever I have to. I'll never stop to save him."  --David Goldman

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Re: Let's tell the whole story
« Reply #148 on: December 22, 2011, 04:05:51 AM »
It's been exactly one year ago 12/21 that Emily was supposed to be on a plane coming home and her mother decided to make her "own" laws regarding kidnapping... oh wait, she didn't think taking my daughter out of the country and hiding with her is kidnapping... I guess it's an extended indefinite vacation???

I wrote an email that will probably show up online tomorrow on A.M. Costa Rica because I figured I might as well come off crazy during the easiest time of the year, oh wait, I mean the flippin' hardest time I never look forward to...

 :shitstorm

I really want to say thank you for the continued support even though it appears I have fallen off the face of the earth, I'm still working on things I just can't display on public forums, Facebook, etc...

It'll NEVER be over until Emily is free from Costa Rica and back home in the U.S. where she really belongs, and if you think she should be with her mother in Costa Rica, then you are a kidnapper, a friend of a kidnapper, or a total idiot (which covers the previous two as well).


Merry Christmas and God Bless to all on BSH!!!


Roy Koyama - LBP of Emily Alina Koyama

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From Ken Connelly
« Reply #149 on: December 30, 2011, 12:49:51 PM »
"Every time you enter the cage to fight, you show that victims don't give up but survive and thrive."

~Ken Connelly (Author of "Throwing Stones") to me

I am truly blessed to have amazing people from all walks of life giving me inspirational messages most of you never get to hear. I asked Ken if I could quote him on this, since it really gives inspiration to those that are in the same battle as I am. Thanks Ken!

I wanted to share this message here as I did on my Facebook Page... it has inspired me to keep moving, like I do.