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**FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« on: June 06, 2010, 02:19:21 PM »
If you've been a member of this forum for 6 months or longer, I'm sure you are familiar with Bill Handleman and the friendship and support he has shown David, the Goldman family and BSH in the last two years. For our newest members, Bill Handleman is a journalist with the Asbury Park Press (NJ). He first met David and the Goldman family within weeks of David's first sharing the story of his efforts to reunite with Sean back in September 2008. In the months that followed, Bill's articles brought David's heartbreak, courage and undying love for Sean into thousands of hearts and homes. His stories helped to raise the public's awareness, called elected officials to action, encouraged the Goldman's to push on through countless disappointments and invited us all to celebrate with the Goldman's each victory (tiny and tremendous) encountered along the way.

Throughout all this, Bill was quietly fighting his own battle...with cancer. While some of us at BSH have been aware of Bill's brave battle, we've never really directly posted about it. I'm doing so at this time because it's been brought to my attention that Bill has recently suffered a relapse and is back in the hospital.

A tribute / fundraiser has been scheduled for next week, coordinated by Bill's friend, Tom Luicci (Star Ledger), and co-worker, Paul D'Ambrosio (Asbury Park Press) on behalf of his family. Any monies raised will be provided to the Handleman's to help defray ongoing medical expenses.

The tribute is being held this coming Saturday, June 12, from 9:30a to 12:00p at Mr. C's in Allenhurst, NJ (please see the attached flyer for more details). If you are interested in attending next week's event, you should please RSVP with Tom Luicci at tluicci@msn.com.

If you are unable to attend, please consider showing your support for Bill by sending a donation. Checks may be forwarded to Paul at the below address. Checks should be made it out to "Cash" or "Judy Handleman" and sent to:

     Paul D'Ambrosio
     Asbury Park Press
     3601 HWY 66 BOX 1550
     Neptune, NJ 07754

Thanks to all for your consideration and support for this great man, friend, hero, who has showed such support and selflessness to all of us here at BSH.

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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #1 on: June 09, 2010, 01:48:27 PM »
I received a google alert about Bill Handleman earlier today and I am really saddened to learn about his passing. I've no doubt that his steadfast support and beautifully written, compelling articles went a long way in garnering support for David's cause - he is indeed a hero. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends at this difficult time.


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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #2 on: June 09, 2010, 02:31:44 PM »
Lexi, thanks for posting. I wasn't aware. Though I never had the honor of meeting Bill, I exchanged a few emails with him. He was a great man and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.



Bill Handleman, long-time Press columnist who championed the underdog, dead at 62.
http://www.app.com/article/20100609/NEWS/100609024/Bill-Handleman-long-time-Asbury-Park-Press-columnist-dead-at-62
By Shannon Mullen • Staff Writer • June 9, 2010



Bill Handleman, an award-winning columnist at the Asbury Park Press whose hard-hitting reporting was instrumental in helping Tinton Falls resident David Goldman bring his son Sean back from Brazil last year after an drawn-out international custody battle, died early this morning. He was 62.

A stalwart at the Press for 30 years, Handleman, of Neptune, was one of the newspaper's most prominent and popular writers and a leading authority on horse racing.

“It is a sad loss,” said Hollis R. Towns, executive editor and vice president of news at the Press. “He was a valuable part of this newspaper as well as the community.”

The son of an international correspondent for U.S. News & World Report magazine, Handleman grew up in Toyko, Paris, San Francisco and Washington, D.C., graduating with a degree in history from Occidental College in Los Angeles, Calif., the same small liberal arts college that Barack Obama attended for two years.

After stints at the Star-Democrat, in Easton, Md., and the Guardian, in Lexington Park, Md., Handleman joined the Press' sports department in 1980.

With his international background, he quickly developed a reputation in the newsroom and the press box as something of a renaissance man. Early on, for example, he scored a rare, candid interview from the famously taciturn Andre the Giant after switching in mid-interview to fluent French, the 7-foot-4-inch wrestler's native tongue.

"That was the Handleman touch," recalled former Press sports editor Joseph Adelizzi, who hired Handleman. "When there was a story you wanted to get, there was no one else who could do it better."

Handleman spent 26 years in sports, covering the tri-state's areas professional teams and filing columns from such national events as the World Series, Super Bowl, Kentucky Derby and many of the biggest boxing matches.

His expertise, and abiding passion, was horse racing, however. A fixture at Monmouth Park, where he had a bird's eye view from his tiny office high above the track, he had an uncanny ability to mine the backstretch and luxury parterre boxes for juicy scoops and hidden story gems. He was respected not just as a sportwriter but as a handicapper. He burnished his reputation in that regard considerably in 1995 when he walked away with the top prize in the prestigious $100,000 Penn National World Series of Handicapping.

As a columnist, Handleman relished championing the underdog, be it an overachieving claimer at the track, out-gunned homeowners fighting to save their Long Branch neighborhood from eminent domain, or a group of plucky student journalists at Ocean County College standing up to administrative intimidation.

Handleman's connection to David Goldman

One of the more egregious injustices he encountered in his career was the plight of David Goldman, whom Handleman first met in the fall of 2008.

More than four years earlier, Goldman's then-wife, Bruna Bianchi Goldman, had flown to Brazil with their then-4-year-old son Sean and her parents, purportedly for a brief vacation. The next day, according to Goldman, she phoned him to say she wasn't coming back and demanded that he fly to Brazil and sign divorce papers drawn up by her attorney or he would never see Sean again. Bruna later remarried and died after giving birth, and her husband, a well-connected attorney in Brazil, kept custody of Sean in defiance of international law, and even secured a gag order to prevent Brazilian media from writing about the case.

Handleman, who was under no such constraint, wrote a series of columns and stories about Goldman's efforts to regain custody of his son. The saga eventually culminated with their reunion and dramatic return to Tinton Falls on Christmas Eve 2009. The Press nominated Handleman's work for a Pulitzer Prize.

U.S. Rep. Christopher H. Smith, R-N.J., who pressed Goldman's case in Washington and accompanied him to Brazil numerous times, said Handleman's columns galvanized support for Goldman at the highest levels of the U.S. government.

"I, along with tens of thousands of others, read each and every column, often with tears of empathy and resolve to do more," Smith wrote in a letter to the Pulitzer Board in support of Handleman's nomination. "David Goldman was indeed lucky that the columnist who embraced his quest turned out to be a consummate story teller dedicated to spotlighting issues of injustice. Bill Handleman's column changed the course of the game."

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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #3 on: June 09, 2010, 02:57:28 PM »
We will miss Bill a great deal. I had the pleasure of getting to know him during his coverage of the case and he was an amazing man. I remember very well when he called me about the story and asked to be put in touch with David. He never looked back, and we should all be very proud of the work he did on this story. Rest in peace Bill. We'll miss you.

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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #4 on: June 09, 2010, 03:03:44 PM »
Oh no! RIP Bill and thank you for helping David.. I guess God felt his job here on earth was done when Sean came home...

RIP and God Bless his family!

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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #5 on: June 09, 2010, 03:08:06 PM »
RIP Mr. Handleman, and thanks for everything.

My heart goes out to his family and friends at this difficult moment.
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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #6 on: June 09, 2010, 03:41:21 PM »
What terrible news.  I had the opportunity to meet Mr. Handleman when he came out to DC for David's Congressional testimony before the Tom Lantos Human Rights Commission.  I remember saying to him that David's story was like some soap opera writer's bad fiction.  Unless you are familiar with family law, and in particular, international law, it defies belief that a situation like that could exist, in this day and age and for that long, without David being able to bring his son Sean home.  He asked me if he could quote me and took my name, even though he didn't end up quoting me :) He will be missed and  was a hero to David and Sean and the other LBP's and abducted children.
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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #7 on: June 09, 2010, 04:55:42 PM »
I'm really sad to hear his passing.
Never had the honor to meet Mr. Handleman like some of you here, but I will never forget what he did for David and Sean through his work at APP.
A champion of the LBP's rights. My heart goes out to his family and loved ones.
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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #8 on: June 09, 2010, 04:56:14 PM »
Such sad news and we lost a good man today. RIP Bill Handleman. You will be missed by
many. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.

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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #9 on: June 10, 2010, 10:49:39 AM »
I saw this news yesterday online-it made my newspaper in Delaware. While I never met him, I was pleasantly surprised that he returned an email wishing him well after Missy (I think) announced here that he was sick.

His family and friends are in my prayers during this difficult time.

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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #10 on: June 10, 2010, 11:11:06 AM »
I didn't know Bill but knew of him through BSH.  Read all the articles that he wrote about David's plight.  My condolences go out to his family and loved ones. RIP Bill - a good man.

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This is sad to hear - Bill Handleman was one of David and Sean's biggest advocates.  He always kept the story going.  He will be missed.


http://www.app.com/article/20100609/NEWS/100609024/Bill-Handleman-long-time-Asbury-Park-Press-columnist-dead-at-62

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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #12 on: June 11, 2010, 06:59:23 AM »
From the APP: http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/app/obituary.aspx?page=lifestory&pid=143469851

WILLIAM STEWART HANDLEMAN
AGE: 62 NEPTUNE

William Stewart Handleman, 62, died peacefully surrounded by his family on Wednesday, June 9, 2010, in the Cancer Treatment Center of America, Philadelphia. Bill was the lead sports writer for the Asbury Park Press for 27 years and the local news columnist for the last 4 years. He was born in Tokyo, Japan, and lived in Washington, DC; Paris, France, and California before coming to the Monmouth County Area in 1979.

He was predeceased by his father, Howard Handleman. Surviving are his wife, Judith Anne Handleman; a son, Kevin Flaherty of Galloway, NJ; two daughters, Jeanne Wehage of Bel Air, MD. and Alexandra Lewis of Richmond, Va.; his mother, Mabel Handleman of McLean, Va.; a brother, David Handleman of Southern Pines, NC; four grandchildren, Christopher, Catie, Jake and Mae, and two nephews, Eric Handleman of Palm Court, FL. and Ian Wilson of Flagler Beach, FL.

Visitation will be Friday, June 11, in Buckley Funeral Home, 509 Second Ave., Asbury Park, from 4 to 7:30 pm followed by a Funeral Service at 7:30 pm. Interment is private. In lieu of flowers please donate to the Cancer Treatment Center of America, 1331 E. Wyoming Ave. Philadelphia, Pa. 19124.

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Re: **FUNDRAISER** for Bill Handleman, BSH Friend and Hero
« Reply #13 on: June 29, 2010, 07:26:54 AM »
My Friend Bill
http://lifeintheboomerlane.wordpress.com/2010/06/29/my-friend-bill/
June 29, 2010...11:08 am
By Renee Fisher


This month, my husband and I lost a dear friend.  Bill was a journalist with the Asbury Park Press, and was the first and for some time, only print journalist, who was writing about the David Goldman case.  Goldman’s young son Sean, had been illegally held in Brazil since 2004 by Goldman’s deceased ex-wife’s family.  Bill knew of Goldman’s story because Goldman lives in Monmouth County, NJ, fairly close to where Bill lives.

Although a local ABC affiliate out of NY had run a short piece on Goldman, and although another short piece was done by The Today Show, most people never heard of David Goldman, outside of the people who read the long columns that Bill was writing.  When Dateline ran a segment on Goldman’s plight, followed by piece in The New York Times, the Goldman story became Big News, and all the networks jumped in. Congress got involved.  Hiliary Clinton. I’m surprised there wasn’t a Telethon of Stars to help Goldman pay his ever-mounting legal bills.  But outside of the BringSeanHome website, Bill was never acknowledged.

All the while this was going on, Bill was in the background, staying on top of the story and speaking with Goldman whenever possible.  He would have done more, but he was preoccupied with a slightly more time-consuming project.  Last year, Bill was diagnosed with kidney cancer.  His planned trips to Brazil to interview the family members holding Goldman’s son were replaced with trips to Sloan Kettering in New York for consultations with his oncologist and chemo sessions.

There were hundreds of people at Bill’s funeral, a funeral Bill wouldn’t have ever wanted in the first place.  Bill’s friends trumped him on that one.  Judy, his window, stood in line for four hours, receiving people’s condolences.  Most just wanted to tell Judy a memory some crazy or wonderful (or both)experience of Bill.  Judy listened to each.  She knew they were talking to Bill, not to her.

Before he became a journalist who ferreted out human interest stories like Goldman’s, Bill was, for many years, the sports columnist for the newspaper.  Bill never met a horse race he didn’t like.  When he and Judy married, after a short, whirlwind courtship of 18 years, they did so in the winner’s circle at Monmouth Race Track, officiated by the track chaplain.  Their wedding invitations were mock ups of a racing program.  They called it “The Handleman Invitational For 40 Year Olds and Up.”

Bill was already at the track on the intended day, watching the races, writing his columns, and making his bets.  July put her wedding dress on, drove herself to Monmouth and went to the site of the ceremony.  Bill took a long enough break from the betting windows to join her.  After the ceremony, Bill wanted to place a blanket of flowers around Judy’s neck, just like they do for the winning horse at the Kentucky Derby.  Judy declined.

Bill was born in Tokyo and lived in Paris as a child.  He attended a French language school.  He hadn’t been back to either place since.  When my husband and I went to Paris a couple years ago, Bill and Judy were supposed to join us.  Instead, Bill used his travel money to have a new driveway put in.  Usually, his travels almost always just took him to Saratoga, or wherever else the big races were.

If you haven’t realized it yet, Bill was an interesting guy.  Put caps on the word “interesting” and let your imagination run wild.  Judy has so many crazy stories about her years with Bill that if she wrote a book, few would believe it.  Life with Bill was more than a roller coaster.  Imagine the roller coaster throwing you off, and you narrowly miss being flung into space because you manage to grab onto the seat bar by one hand and you are holding on for dear life and the roller coaster is approaching a rise as high as Everest and… Well, you get the picture.

Bill had gotten this cancer thing.  Much as he loved the races, he never intended to be in one himself.  He couldn’t go to Saratoga this past year, and that really pissed him off.  Cancer stopped his trip to Saratoga, but it didn’t stop the 34 year argument that Bill and Judy had been having, first about Bill’s drinking (he stopped that in 1987) and smoking (that happened one year later), then about his gambling.  Bill countered with his own list of grievances about Judy, and he always made sure he looked startled when Judy made a motion to hug him or hold his hand.  Bill liked to be seen as the Big Lug, the Tough Guy.  But all you had to do was read his Goldman pieces or any of the other columns he had written about the struggles of all the people no one noticed, but should have, to get that Bill noticed.  And after he noticed, he started typing.

Bill’s illness had been tough on Judy.  Her way of dealing with it at times was to keep in mind the ordinary, everyday frustrations and annoyances she has always had about Bill, and to talk about those instead.  That’s what kept her grounded to real life.  A couple months ago, she didn’t do that.  She simply asked, “Can you believe how much I love this guy?”  Yes, Judy, I could.  No surprise at all.

Back in February, while Bill was at home and unable to go anywhere, it was racing day, as usual, at Fair Grounds Racecourse in New Orleans.  In the 7th was a horse by the name of “Handleman,” named after Guess Who.   At 5-2, he was described as a “lukewarm” favorite.  Hey, even the best of us are lukewarm at times.  It’s what makes the victories that much sweeter.