Don't give in to any of her demands. It doesn't sound like you are tempted to, but she is playing on your desire to see this resolved, so she is forcing you to accept more than any rational parent should be forced to accept.
I can't pretend that I understand how you feel, but please know that there are many of us who are working to get 3240 passed so that you and so many others don't have to live a lifetime without your children.