I am a Brazilian mother, living in the US, got a divorce from a brazilian husband,
my kids were in Brazil visiting with his relatives, when he died in the US, my sister in Law lied to the judge in Brazil saying the father lived in Brazil, was vacationing in the US when he died, she also said the parents were divorced, the mother had abandoned the kids and were nowhwere to be found, so the situation was an emergency situation, asked for custody and the brazilian judge gave it to her, it has taken me 8 years and the situation is not reversed, the only thing that happened ismy kids grew up and came to the US for College (2 of them), close to me.
i also blame the US gov. who sent the aunt the kids social security, even though I begged them not to, they had the nerve to say the aunt now was the custodian, even if she had kidnnaped the kids