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06-17-2009, 05:51 PM
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IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
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06-17-2009, 05:52 PM
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Re: IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
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06-17-2009, 05:56 PM
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Re: IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
Read the testimony of Sean
Interview with SRG - 15.06.2009 Location: Santa Casa da Misericórdia - Psychiatric Clinic Jorge Alberto - Rio de Janeiro. Teacher: Terezinha Carneiro Terezinha Carneiro - So Sean, we are seeing that we are being filmed, is not it? Because it will be important that we say here. I work there at the PUC because families and children in families and there also writes for the sessions after we better understand what happened, do not lose anything of the session. Why they are recording. Sean Goldman-But they listen? TC - They listen. Ah ... they listen here, this is a microphone and then the side of it they are watching us, we do not tamo (sic) see them and this microphone is the sound mind. Here at the university where I'm taking the family with the student I sometimes take the families back of the mirror to see who 's looking, explain why we' re recording because after I do it, everybody turns off the microphone, the camera, already knowing what it is, okay? So, my name is Terezinha, I am a specialist in caring for families. Families with children, families with babies, families with adolescents, adults with family out of home, families in general I try it has some problems, so they seek. My profession is psychologist, a family therapist. So, for people seeking psychologist? So because they (sic) with some problem that sometimes they alone can not solve. Okay? So, in our meeting, that our meeting, I wanted you I could speak naturally, with all the freedom that everything is going for his head. The point here is we know how you think, what you feel, what you want. I know you 're living a time of trouble, a difficult moment in their family and I wanted you begin Sean, I am talking about your family. What is your family, how it is formed, how it is constituted, his family? SG - Hmm, did not understand the question. CT-No? Thus, sometimes I ask people to draw the family. SG - Oh, okay! TC - You want to draw your family or tell me? SG - nod positively) TC - So okay, you will draw me to his family and then we'll talk about its design. You prefer with black pencil or colored pencil? SG - Color. TC - Color. So ready, draw your family to me. All members of his family, including you. SG - No color of skin? TC - color of skin? What do you think is the skin color? SG - The more similar is the red TC - Okay. Oh, sorry SG - No. I do the face so white with black outline. TC - You can do it the way you want, but then you tell me about them all, okay? (Pause for 58 seconds) SG - I'm not the best CT - Designers? But is not important, the design we re using Sean, just as a way for us to talk of people to communicate. You need not be a designer, huh? Just talk to us in a little early on his family. (Pause for 15 seconds) SG - Hmm, I did something wrong here TC - Oh, is not important. Then you explain what you did wrong SRG - Oh, you can do as a mouth TC - Okay. (Pause for 40 seconds) TC - Uhum
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06-17-2009, 05:57 PM
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Re: IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
The first 3 reports didn't work for them so they're still 'psych shopping'. Paraded around in the dark side's dog and pony show until he give the response they want to hear.
He needs to get out of there......NOW!!  
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06-17-2009, 05:57 PM
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Re: IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
(Pause for 90 seconds)
SG - Can you pretend as if it were a mouth? TC - Okay, okay, then you me explain. Just draw us a little talk about the design. Okay? SG - Uhum. TC-We have several things you talk. Then after the design we will talk. Will put hair in everyone? (Pause for 40 seconds) SG - Hmm, I forgot CT - Who are these people? Talk to me SG - I have not finished TC - Ah, then ends. (Pause for 15 seconds) You must get all members of your family SRG - So I need another ... (shows the sheet of paper) TC - Is it? No, I think will fit, is that part of it. Well, let's try to get everybody on the same sheet. (Pause for 19 seconds) All missing someone? SG: All the other two missing grandparents TC - Okay. So come on SG - And my sister TC - So here we go SRG - I will bring my sister here TC - Okay SG - It is a baby TC-A baby? How many months is she? SG - Nine TC - How is it called? SG - Chiara (Pause for 12 seconds) TC - Who 's still missing? SG - My two grandparents, other TC: So let's put the other grandparents. (Pause for 49 seconds) SG: That was very bad here TC: EU, why? SG: Where is the hand? TC: Ah, but okay. You need not be a designer, I just want you to tell me of your family. (Pause for 20 seconds) SG - entered someone else TC: They have come, right? But we already know they are there watching the same people. Tamo not (sic) not calling for it, right? (Pause for 23 seconds) TC - Um, okay now the family complete? SG: Yeah TC - So let me identify the characters of the family? Who are the people? SG - I lack an uncle, but okay TC - Okay, then let. I know that uncle has, you can talk but it will not fit on paper. Let's talk about those people, identify each person for me. Who are they? SG - the VO from the mother TC - How is it? SG - Raimundo TC - Raimundo. Raimundo then arises. Raimundo is the VO by the mother. This is who? SG - Silvana TC: Silvana? SG: A grandma from the mother TC - Okay, then put the name of Silvana SG - This is my father CT - This is your father. So writes the father. Dad, how is he called? SG-John Paul TC - John Paul, OK. SG - I can not write here Chiara ... then ... TC - You can make initial SG - So I put a C TC - A C, Chiara. Your sister for nine months? SG - Uhum CT - Here. Um, is this you? SG - This is ... TC - That you said that the grandparents are others, right? SG - Ahani TC - Are? SG - The grandparents ... TC - Grandmothers paternal, right? SG - Ana Lucia TC - Ana Lucia. So places. Ana Lucia, and the grandfather? SG - Paul CT - Paul? Paulo. Here, how is it here? Your father 's with your hand behind your shoulder. Is that it? So? SG - Yeah, well. TC - So? SG - Yeah CT - Friends? Cool. What name would you give to this design? SG - My family TC - From family. It is my family, okay. Then put the title. Whenever I ask to do a drawing, I ask you make a name for the drawing, put a title in the drawing. (Pause for 90 seconds) SG - Can you hear TC - Yes. They are talking high right? We pay attention not there. Let's pay attention here right? Um, also put an accent. Very good! Capriccio right?
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#6
06-17-2009, 05:58 PM
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Re: IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
Pause for 10 seconds)
SG - That was bad TC-No, it was legal. It was cool, cool. So? I wanted you to speak a little for me, right Sean, how is it your living with this family, Iittle Iife, your day to day, not only with the family, that you do, where you go, the college . SG - Monday is basketball TC - Basketball. You like to play basketball? SRG - Taste CT - only the second basketball? SRG - Second and fourth TC - Hum SG - Basketball second and fourth. I will go pro, I agree, sometimes I do the duty TC - What college you study? SG - College Park TC - College Park. Beautiful there right? SG - Ahani. I agree, sometimes my duty, EEA, lunch and going to school. Then I study at school TC - Have many friends? SG - I TC - What friend do you like most at school? SG - Ih, has many TC - both! Wow! Many you like SRG - It CT - In general what you do with your friends? In addition to find in college, you go out with friends, make program somewhere? SRG - Sometimes TC - Yeah? What kind of thing you do? SG - Sometimes I ... we, the people who solve CT - When you solve. And people with this family? What you usually do, and that living at home? You leave with these grandparents? SG - I go out TC - Get? What do you do? SG - We solve the time too. TC - Solves the time too. And with your sister. How is it? Helps you look, what do you do with your sister? SG - Yeah. I get it TC - You get it and what do you do? Play with it? SG - I play TC - What do you play with it? SG - Oh, the things she likes TC - Yeah? In general it like that? SG - Oh, I do some tricks in it that I get out, just as I was running behind her nanny and run from me, there she is laughing TC - Ahani that legal SG - That's a joke that she likes TC - What she likes. Cool, cool. So Sean, this is your family, you called my family that lives here in Brazil, right? But I know you were born there in the United States, New Jersey. You remember it? From when you lived there? SG - I remember TC - Remember? Do you remember? SG - That was ... cold. CT - It was cold? SG - Yeah TC - the more you remember, and it was cold? SG - (Silence - Put your hand on head) TC - Well, you may therefore want to say to you, right Sean, that this, in that our meeting here today, it is important that you can talk about everything that goes through your head, without being worried, not be thinking, that, huh, I know you 're living it, this difficult time, you know we are here you talk about this situation, if you are in Brazil, if you go to the United States and I wanted to tell you so that This decision is for adult, you have the right to give their opinion and it is very important that we listen to you, what you feel, what you want, but it is also important, Sean, you know that is not you who will decide this, okay? That I speak whenever I families purchasing it. This decision is of adult people, but the adults to decide it is important that they can take into account what you want, what you think. SG - What I want to stay here in Brazil! TC - You want to stay in Brazil? SG - I want to be in Brazil! TC - You stay in Brazil. And because you want to stay in Brazil? Tell me. I can even understand when you told me that this is his family, but I wanted you I speak a little more because you want to stay in Brazil SG - I'm here because I like my family ... TC - Hum .. SG - the family that is my father, my sister ... TC - Uhum ... SG - my grandparents, I want to be here! TC - How do you imagine if you were over there, how would the United States? SG - I do not like. Nor imagine TC - Not or imagine? SRG - No wonder TC - No idea. No idea SG-must be very bad. I will not like! TC - You will not like? Why do you think will not like? I explained a little bit is important that we know, what goes through your mind that on this subject SG - Because here I have my family, I will not like because I stay away from my family and I'm familiar ... I may never see them if I go TC - Hmm, you have that fear of never seeing them? SG - What I go, I want to stay here TC-Uhum. You can not remember little of it? The time when you, you lived there until the four years, was not it? Can not remember anything? SG - (in the negative gesture of the head) CT - E of David? What do you remember David? SG - That ... he has changed very TC - much has changed? SG - Mudou. He is doing this now, more or less so, as if sustained TC - Hmm. You think he is to suffer? How is it that? SG - He 's now pretending that he suffered very tá, tá pretending he gives you realize CT - Do you think is pretending you do not really believe so? SG - I have no confidence in him. He says that will be ... ... come visit me and ruined my end of the week, I had a trip scheduled pro Beach Park and he ruined my end of the week talking about that would come visit me here, so I went there and I was with the waiting, there's the lawyer with Sergio and I was expecting more, we was waiting a long time, long, long time and he just did not appear TC - I appeared? SG - I came CT - After you have checked with you? SG - Once you have marked. And that was the third time TC - How boring huh? The third time he comes and does not mark. That is difficult to trust, right? SG - Yeah CT - It is difficult to trust. But, you know, you see Sean, he is his biological father, you know, right, he has some rights, right of your visit, now that he make visitation like that without giving you the assurance that when he comes, he says and he is not coming. SG - No, he does not turn on, no prompts TC - Yeah, what makes you very angry and I understand that you get upset. I understand. This makes up your contact with him, right? Would you like to have some contact, I understand that you do not want to go live in the United States, that I understand. But you would thus have some contact with him? SG - No TC - How your biological father? SG - No TC - No no contact? SG - None TC - You prefer to have no contact? SG - Prefer TC - You know that he is entitled to this contact? SG - I know, but I do not like TC - No, I'm understanding that you do not like, I just wanted to, right, that I was not saying that you need not be worried that your word is worth it too, your word, but you need not be concerned that the final decision is that you will take. Would you like to make this decision final? You have a responsibility to make this decision final? SG - The only thing I want is to stay here in Brazil TC - You want, then ready SG - I! TC - What adults know. One who will make that decision knows that SG - That all the judges, that all people know TC - That all people, judges, anyone who will work in that case, know that your desire is to stay in Brazil SG - Sure. CT - This is important so you can say, with this freedom, right? You, as we combined the beginning, I wanted you to speak me what goes through your head, what you feel, with full freedom and that is what you feel. Uhum SG - If I am around I will start to break everything, I will not like TC - You break it? SG - I'm gonna be crazy. TC - No, not gonna be crazy. You think you'll be crazy? SG - I want to stay here in Brazil TC - I understand Sean, I understand. Let's see, let's twist for people, adults who will make that decision, right, to understand what is going on inside you. I understand, as a family psychologist, I understand that if you draw me that these people are your family is more than reasonable that you want to keep these people are the people with whom you have their links, it is your father, are his grandparents and his sister, right? Here, as you said, that 's your family. I understand, you see, we need to see from now on, if people, like I told you, is not you who will decide, but your opinion is very important, let's see if the adults, right Sean, you have to take that decision, how they will deal, huh, well that is until one, a drawing to show you, right, we can show to people who are purchasing there seeing the other side as you drew your family, right ? I wish you told me a little more than, well, how is it you who said: I want to stay in Brazil, because here I have my family, my friends, my life, I wanted you to speak a bit more of that family, friends and those of life. Us because it is already clear, but may need to be a bit more clear to other people, even people who will influence this decision.
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#7
06-17-2009, 06:00 PM
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Re: IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
SG - Here, my grandfather ...
TC - Your grandfather. Let's see, I am old with glasses and only see Sean, Raimundo SG - Raimundo. He is great, he does everything for me to be okay TC - which have a legal grandfather well, huh? SG - My grandmother also TC - Silvana SG - Yeah. All my family, I do everything to stay as I want TC - What legal. What is this all, when you talk like this: I do everything to be fine. That you can remember, especially when you 're speaking of this, the Raimundo Grandpa and grandma Silvana, for example? SG - As I'm a headache, they ask at the pharmacy the medicine TC - Uhum SG - When I'm sleepy, they ask for people to get my bed I sleep TC - Uhum SG - Yeah TC - That is, always providing its welfare. Caring for you. And here, this nucleozinho here? Dad, you and Chiara, how is this relationship? SG - Very good TC - Very good. Tell me a little. What you do SG - We go to the cinema, we go to the beach, we travel together, we make a lot of things TC - Uhum. What do you most like to do when you're with your father and Chiara? SG - Exit CT - What is it? Exit? SG - We ride TC - Walk. What ride you like? SG - We walk in the sidewalk, we will no ... shopping. TC-Oh that cool. Generally you only go three or more go with someone? SG - Will the nanny CT - The babysitter vai. To take care of that Chiara is still Frenchieee and is still in diapers. And this hand here, and the shoulder, huh? How is it that? To me SG - is that every time we walk embraced, I and my father, even in the mall, everywhere CT-What legal, that legal. And here, the other grandparents, or Luiza Ana Lucia? Lucia SG - Lucia TC - Ana Lucia and Paul. How is it with these grandparents? What do you do about everything, how is it with them? SG - My grandfather Paul, he has a ranch of horses and people will ride a horse, will do a lot of things. Very cool! TC-Que legal. You will therefore always on the farm, how many times? SG - If not, when I do I will TC - Uhum. When you want, just say that you want to go farm, is to go SG - Yeah, and on weekends TC - With weekend. That's where the farm? Far? SG - I do not know where this right is CT - how long is thus more or less it takes? SG - An hour and a half TC - One hour and a half? Close SG - An hour and a half or two hours or one hour TC - Is too close right? SG - Yeah CT - It is very close. And I talk a bit more for me so of college. You like the Park School? I think the school is a school legal. Now, do you like? SG - Uhum. I love the School Park TC - like the Park School. You always looked before you looked there or somewhere else? SG - I studied in American schools before, but the American School ... I do not enjoy the American School TC - Yeah, how long have you been in American schools? SG - I think one years TC - A year? And what you do not like it? You not enjoyed? SG - There I learned to speak Portuguese, English was only TC - I spoke English. So you want to learn to speak Portuguese in school? Because you spoke Portuguese at home, right? SG - Yeah
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06-17-2009, 06:01 PM
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Re: IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
TC - You thought it important to speak English when you were in the United States speak English when you were in Europe, the countries that speak English ...
SG - No. .. TC - You did not think it so important. You can study it then, right? SG-Yes, I already know the basics. TC - You know the basics. You can understand everything in English? SG - I do not. TC - Not a lot. SG - Yeah. TC - And you said that the college had many friends, but it has a special friend? I know that we have. SG - No. CT - Do you have a friend come more so? SG - No. TC - Most arrivals are many friends, more or less? SG - Ahn, all. TC-All. When you make a party, birthday party you do? SG - Ahani TC - So you invite all your friends? Also all? SG - Uhum. CT - In your class has more boys or more girls? SG - More boys. TC - More boys. And you get along with both boys and girls with or if it better with some than with others? SG - It's the same thing. TC - Same thing. The games ... SG - are the same. TC - are the same. With boys and girls. Sean then, has anything else you would like to talk about his family, about your body, about this story is in Brazil, the United States will continue on anything else you want to talk? SG - I do not want. What I want is respect. TC - Respect? Do you feel violated? SG - Tava this. When it comes to a visit, have someone present. TC - Today is that? SG - Until today. TC - The first was with the psychologist? SG-It. TC - Where was it? In what location? SG - Where is the ... in the condominium. CT - In the condominium where you live? SG - Ahani. TC - Yeah. SG - And when I had the bag, I decided: I want to go. CT - In this first visit? SG - On the first visit. Then he said, then we are. I said: not now, enough for today. He: No! Today is not enough! Him .. TC - I violated, do you think? SG - Yeah. TC - this failure. SG - Yeah. He violated me that I would travel, he made a ... a ... it combines a thing and will not. TC: Very annoying this, right Sean? Very annoying. And you said that pro David, you wanted to be more respected for it? SRG: Not yet. TC: No? And you would say that for him? SRG: I would like. TC: So it would be important ... SRG: I would like ... and he saw that video! TC: This video from now? SRG: Maybe. TC: Oh, yeah ... you decide later. SRG: It is ... TC: ... to people. I think you can see in this video because we are doing, with the main objective, Sean, you speak your opinion freely. SRG: My view is I want to stay here in Brazil. TC: Yeah, you've spoken, I s recorded in the video. And you said, right? So you would like David to watch this video. SRG: And I repeat once more: I want to stay in Brazil! TC: Do you want to stay in Brazil. I understand that perfectly.
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06-17-2009, 06:02 PM
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06-17-2009, 06:08 PM
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Re: IMPORTANT - CONJUR WEBSITE TODAY
Oh my lord help this boy.... I cannot read this.
I will do whatever I can to help...Where is our goverment? This is sooo sad....someone do something!
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